Taken from Humble The Poet’s book. How to be love(d)- Simple truths for going easier on yourself, embracing imperfection, and loving your way to a better life
Exercise #2 Big L. vs Small l
What are five things/people/activities that give you peace?
Oh, I love this question because my life’s purpose is peace.
- Nature, sunset, sunrises, trees, flowers, birds, Earth, Mother Mature
- Our home, resting at home, watching TV, playing videos, not caring about what other people think, living life on your terms!
- Will Smith, ENFPs, Robin Williams, people who are super vulnerable, humans living up to their full potential
- Journaling, Meditation, waking up feeling super refreshed
- Gratitude exercises
Love Attracts love
What is something you like about others that you also like about yourself?
I like how ambitious, smart, charismatic, people-centric, focused and passionate on topics and things I’m into.
What is something you like about others that you wish you had yourself?
I admire others the ability to rest more often, the focus that comes with not having ADHD, and how people can be happy with less. The brilliance that comes with inventing something that transforms and impacts the life of being a billionaire or even a millionaire. I’m not a millionaire yet, but I know it will happen because of the vision and the level of action I am able to take in regards. How people can be comfortable with staying at home.
What are your qualities in a dream partner?
Compassionate, loving, caring, unconditional love.
Which of these qualities do you have yourself?
Compassion, I am a ball full of love, and I don’t currently have unconditional love for myself, but I’m very much on that journey.
Perfect is the enemy of love
What are some of your imperfections?
I cry, and I can get pretty emotional. I’m short, I’m definitely not what American views as handsome or good-looking. Well because I’m not a tall dark super buff-looking guy. I just simply love food so much. Being a foodie is one of life’s pleasures and it also creates a lot of unhealthy thoughts because of social media. I have ADHD and I can judge people from time to time. I’m not the best grammar person evident but a lot of grammar police who have commented and let me know. When I see people not living up to their full potential, I get sad.
Write to your 8 year self helping them feel better and embrace these imperfections
You are going to go through way too many thoughts in your head, and you know what all of the things that make you different you will start to appreciate. You will find that the complexity that comes with the world. Life is currently not fair, and you won’t always understand why things happen the way they do, but I guarantee you will have many funny stories to tell, and your capacity for understanding so many different types of people will make you such an impactful worthy of crying human being.
Purpose: I create an empowering context for curious and hungry people looking for fulfillment, experiences, and creativity. We do this by developing their growth mindset, introducing self-love, and powerful group experiences. It results in people with strong boundaries, resilient mental health, and practical life skills
People leave with the ability to land their dream job, have autonomy and flexibility with their lifestyle, travel the world, and create from their heart and soul.
Davidson was once broke, insecure, low-confidence, and frustrated by doing all the wrong activities. Addicted to drugs, validation, and wallowing in self-pity. No relationship to family, and at the mercy of other people’s suggestions and opinions.
It was hell.
After spending $100k hiring different coaches, traveling the world doing workshops around the world, reading>1000 books, and through curiosity, have created the most effective system to remove people from that situation. My life’s work is to bring joy and abundance to people who as on a similar path as I was and bring back the joy and abundance of their life.
Through shared experiences and storytelling, I inspire and model behaviors that lead to a richer, more fulfilled life full of joy, experiences, passion, and ecstasy from the richness of relationships and being able to experience the depths of the human experience.